Talking about our problems is our greatest addiction. Break the habit. Talk about your joys instead.

Why?  Because we get what we talk about.  We get what we think about.  We get what we expect.  We get what we focus on.  No exceptions.  It is law.  The Law of Attraction. βœ¨πŸŒŸπŸ’«


How to break the habit?  Easy peasy! 😊

  1. Focus elsewhere.  Like you distract a toddler from something dangerous or breakable, jingle the keys metaphorically and train your mind to focus on something else.  Something that feels good.  Focus, focus, focus like a Jedi.

  2. Go general about that problem.  Get really general.  (i.e. β€œThings are always working out for me.”) The more specific you get the faster the momentum so the more that problem will grow/speed up.  It’s not personal. It’s law.  The Law of Attraction. βœ¨πŸŒŸπŸ’«  You are not weak, the Law of Attraction βœ¨πŸŒŸπŸ’« is strong.

  3. Meditate daily.  15-20 minutes.  I teach mediation in my coaching practice because it’s easier to quiet your mind than to change thoughts that have a lot of momentum.

  4. Let go of the fear that if you don’t follow the herd (most people relentlessly talk about their problems and lack) you will be ostracized.  There’s never a crowd on the leading edge.  So you get to choose, β€œDo I want to β€˜fit in’ or be happy?”  I recommend happy.  And authentic.  It’s a fun, wild, abundant, exciting, exhilarating, easy, flowing, satisfying ride!  Join me! Or not. The choice is always up to you. And it’s a moment to moment thing. Alignment is not like a college degree that you hang on the wall forever more. It either is or isn’t in the moment. So we are all in the same place in each moment, as a creator, choosing what to paint on that white blank canvas in front of us, called β€œnow.” There is no assertion. Only attraction. What do you choose to attract now?

A happy life is… a string of happy moments. βœ¨πŸŒŸπŸ’«πŸ’›

I believe in you. πŸŒˆπŸ’«β€οΈπŸ˜ŠπŸ™πŸ» And I’m rooting for you!

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