“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.”
― Bernard M. Baruch
A student and reader was struggling with a friend who had trash talked her. Here is what I responded to her:
In my humble opinion, and always take what you want n leave the rest, this ain't about that person. It's about you and you connecting with your power and focus and intention. It's all about the power of the focus of your mind and the universe don't want you focusing on people like that. The universe don't want you trying to convince them--of anything--because:
A. There are too many of them!
B. it's an impossible and fruitless task. The people who mind don't matter and the people who matter don't mind. The haters will never get you. The end.
The reason the haters/trash talkers won't get you is that you are light and love and they are the opposite end of the spectrum. Well actually they are light and love too but they are choosing to operate from the opposite end of the spectrum.
So use your precious energy for and on you and your kids and your spiritual growth and the people who love and get you.
Ignore the peanut gallery.
If you're having difficulty doing so, welcome to the club! Yes, that means you be human.
But with practice and intention you'll get it sister. I know because I've been there.
Two great tools in this process is an easy mantra in my book and my inspiration cards. Get em!
Have the BEST DAY EVER! Namaste! Taylor plus 5 ❤