“Taylor, I want to fall in love but.…”
If you CPR: Choose - Prefer - Resonate with falling in love and/but have some fear and (false) beliefs around it, try this, if it’s your highest excitement to do so.
As always, take what you prefer and leave the rest.
First:
Identify the false beliefs on the other side of the “but….”
Examples of some false beliefs which may finish that sentence:
“I’m not good enough.”
“I’m not worthy.”
“I’m not good at relationships.”
“It hasn’t happened yet, and I am ___ age, so it’s too late for me.”
“I’m doing something wrong.”
“All the good ones are taken.”
“I don’t know ‘how.’”
“No one in my family has a good relationship with their partner.”
“I don’t know any couples who have a relationship I would CPR: Choose - Prefer - Resonate with."
Next:
Use the “belief tree” to root out what is fueling the false beliefs by asking yourself, "What must I believe to be true to feel (plug in a false belief)?”
Or “I feel (plug in a false belief) because.…”
Next:
Dig into the answers your inner critic generates to make the false beliefs seem valid.
Your inner critic feeds on negativity and false beliefs.
Here are some examples which may surface:
“I don’t have classes with him/her.”
“I don’t work with him/her.”
“I don’t run into him/her in town.”
“I am really busy. I don’t have time to have a boyfriend/girlfriend.”
”It hasn’t happened yet so it isn’t going to happen.”
”I am unlucky in love.”
”I’m not pretty/handsome enough.”
”I’m not fit enough.”
”Something is wrong with me.”
Next:
Identify the feelings you CPR: Choose - Prefer - Resonate with feeling when you’re in love.
Make a list.
Some examples:
Love
Loved
Connected
Inspired
Seen
Heard
Understood
Supported
Confident
Respected
Appreciated
Ease
Relief
Satisfied
Exhilarated
Excited
Energized
Focused
Uplifted
The energy that creates worlds flowing through me in a grounded, sustainable way
The key to manifesting falling in love is to embody the feelings now. They already exist inside of you. Your job is to choose them, tune into their vibration, and embody them.
Then simply relax, and allow.
He/she - or someone who’s an even better fit for you - must show up, in divine timing.
It is law. No exceptions.
General tips:
When you have a thought that feels “flompaly,*" you have disconnected from your higher mind who doesn’t feel the same way and won’t join you in your limiting false belief. Your higher mind will always stay in a vibration that feels good and gently beckon you there through beliefs that feel better. To have access to these better feeling beliefs which will provide relief, do the belief tree (explained above) to dismantle the false belief(s).
When you choose a belief which feels bad, it generates feelings that feel bad, and they create thoughts that feel bad. This is being a “sloppy lazy thinker.” The easiest thought to think is the thought you’ve been thinking the most, even if it feels bad.
This is okay! Be gentle with yourself.
Once you are aware, you may choose differently.
You may choose a better feeling belief.
And the multiverse will immediately reflect evidence of that better feeling belief.
As a rebuttal to your inner critic who uttered the false beliefs, ask him/her, "Have you ever been in love?"
When you are in love:
Time increases.
Productivity increases.
Ease increases.
Leverage increases.
All these things also increase the probability that you will choose beliefs that feel good.
The “love” you are looking for already exists inside of you.
You don’t have to create anything new, since everything already exists.
Your only job is to be your authentic self and choose how you prefer to feel.
*flompaly: I made this word up. It means anything that feels bad. Many words are laden with negative baggage so even saying the word can bring negative energy. So I made up a word that has no baggage.
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