Creating your reality isn't just about setting an intention for what you want, making a dream board, setting a new year’s resolution, yada yada yada. This is only the first step.
You must be in the receiving mode for what you want to manifest (Step 3) - the opposite of asking mode (Step 1). Ask yourself, “Where is my tuner set? On what frequency am I receiving?”
It’s like a radio. If you’re tuned to 105.7 you’re not going to hear music from 100.7. The frequencies don’t match up.
You’re always receiving something so if you're not receiving the reality you want now, what do you need to change inside of you to allow the reality you are seeking?
The answer lies in where you are tuned. At what frequency are you broadcasting? What you put out comes back to you. It is law. No exceptions.
If you're like most people you unconsciously practice resistance around receiving what you want. You are unconsciously tuned to a frequency that does not allow you to receive. You’re on 105.7 but you wanna be on 100.7. Only you can tune the receiver. I can talk till the cows come home but only you can think in your mind. In this photo, Montana (left) is on 105.7 (asking/problem mode, Step 1) and Dakota (right) is on 100.7 (receiving/answer mode, Step 3). Our emotions are our perspective indicator.
In my coaching practice I see many unconscious resistance patterns. Here are a few:
Getting what you want feels unsafe.
Getting what you want will lead to consequences.
Getting what you want will alienate you.
Getting what you want won't last (so you'd rather not risk it).
Getting what you want will be tiring.
Getting what you want will be overwhelming.
Getting what you want is unknown - which feels unsafe.
No one else in my family got what they wanted.
I am not worthy to get what I want. I am not good enough.
I am stuck and powerless so I cannot get what I want.
It has to be HARD to get what I want.
If it’s easy to get what I want then I will not be able to relate to everyone else, most of whom relentlessly talk about how hard everything is.
Not a single one of these statements is true. But if you believe any of them your receiving mode is being compromised. You’re tuned to 105.7 not 100.7.
This weekend a lot of people will set “New Year’s Resolutions.” Instead, choose to tune yourself every morning to the vibration from which you want to receive. Get in alignment first. And then.