Hilarious True Reason we Called one of our Chickens - Who Shall Not be Named - Out of School Today 💫

My Chickens and I share our magical sunroom as our offices. My purple imac and a gold buddha snow globe Goddess Jen gifted me after I admired it in her home sit on my big white desk with a teal drawer kitty corner from their desks and we all work quite well together, along with our rescue kitty Frank Sinatra, always in residence soaking up the sun. At times the amazing sunlight pours in so much so that I need to wear shorts and a tank top.

Man, nature is magical - and powerful.

Yesterday I noticed a really awful smell in our sunroom, despite the essential chakra oil diffuser running and the nag champa incense I light every morning. I asked my Chickens to take off their socks - “They must be what’s creating this smell,” I reasoned. They laughed and said it wasn’t their socks. “Take ‘em off anyhow,” I continued. "I can’t take this smell.”

The stench remained.

Have you seen the Seinfeld where Jerry’s brand new BMW gets “stinkified” by a valet with BBO (“Beyond BO”)?  He gets it detailed a few times and still the smell remains. So he gives it away to a stranger on the street.

This smell was reminiscent of that episode.

This afternoon one of my chickens called me from school (not sure how, they confiscate their phones at the beginning of school, but he finessed it) asking me to please call him out because…he had found the smell and he needed to come home stat to clean out his backpack before any of his classmates identified that “that smell” was coming from his backpack. So far no one had put it together, as everyone held their noses wondering where “that smell” was coming from.

“That smell” was the result of some unidentified food gone way bad a long time ago - in his thermos - in said backpack.  

Oh boy.

I send hot lunches with them every day in thermoses. No wonder it smelled so awful. And, come to think of it, I hadn’t seen that pretty light blue thermos for quite a while.

I laughed so hard, then had the quandary of what to say to Elaine at the front desk (synchronicity there re Seinfeld quoted above) because I cannot-  and will not - lie. My HH happened to be in the kitchen with me since Brandeis’ school year just finished so he made the call and did what is definitely not my lane - he was super vague and brief regarding why he’d be picking up our chicken. 

Wow. Blew my mind. Brevity and being nebulous not my lane - yet. Always learning, growing and expanding, like you! We all are. That’s why we came to 3D Earth school.

As my chicken and I dumped his backpack out on our lawn to discover the stinky culprit, we continued to laugh so hard we were crying. 

I love to reuse and recycle and do not prefer to waste food; however, this was a whole different ball game. Everything in that backpack went in the trash and the trash bin was taken to the curb stat. Remembering the Seinfeld, we were not messing around.

The backpack itself is in the wash at the moment - heavy cycle, hot temp with vinegar added and fingers crossed. Pretty sure that’s also gonna be in the trash after the spin cycle. And I am 100% certain that more will unfold regarding this hilarious event - illuminating how it will somehow benefit all, since it doesn’t matter what happens, it matters what you do with what happens.

And my chicken, HH, and I laughed all through this experience, kept it light, which is, after all, what “enlightenment” is: lightening up. 💫

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"I am so needed." ✨💫

I had just gotten home from visiting one of my chickens at Vanderbilt and utilized my mantra upon returning home from any travel when I have partaken sans chickens and HH:

“I am so needed.”

I smile and breathe as I utilize my mantra and because of this, it makes my heart sing to clean up, sort and organize the chaos, do laundry, order instacart, etc…I wear it like a crown, not a weight.

No overwhelm - just joy, appreciation, ease, flow, and gratitude for the fullness of my life - and my heart.

And for being needed.

I always choose this upon returning home.

I always choose happiness and feeling good because it just makes sense knowing how reality is created by Universal Law. Why would I choose any other state of being when I know my reality is a reflection of my beliefs - and subsequent emotions (BETA)?

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Step Four of the Formula is a Sparkling Opportunity to Expand and Grow 💫

Many of my clients feel they are challenged most by step four of the formula. 

For example, one client said:

“Step four is where I usually get trapped…It is that belief that “I know what the outcome should look like.” I am working on that belief constantly! There are many layers to it…I keep finding more, especially these past two months.” 

While that belief is certainly valid; I suggested that it’s also possible to flip the coin and rewrite and rephrase his beliefs about step four like this:

“ I love the sparkling opportunity step four presents me to grow and evolve! I love how it reminds me that it’s great to have an idea of a fun outcome, and/but I have no clue how great it can be…and my idea is most likely far less magical than what is even possible because my lower mind is in the valley and my higher mind on the mountaintop. I see my old belief from time to time, like a pebble in a pond, and I smile and tell it that it’s valid and/but no thanks, I choose otherwise. I love how other false beliefs bubble up on this journey so I can identify them and choose to let them go.” 

I always guide my clients regarding any words they are utilizing which may be inhibiting their ease and flow of consciously creating what they CPR: Choose - Prefer - Resonate with in their life. It’s not about mincing words, though - quite the opposite. Our words are a window into our thoughts, emotions and therefore, our beliefs (BETA) and are therefore a wonderful opportunity to tease out false beliefs not in alignment with our authentic self. So pay attention to what you’re saying so you may discover a belief which is pumping the brakes on your train moving toward the reality you prefer. Then, if the words don’t align, change them. Start where you are. Know you’re getting better and better at this and we are all on this journey - always growing and expanding.  

That’s why we came to 3D Earth school. And it’s a pretty cutting edge place to be.

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What's “vibration" and what causes it? 💫

What’s “vibration" and what causes it?

People ask me this question a lot.  The answer is simple.

Your vibration emanates from your:

Beliefs

Emotions

Thoughts

Actions

BETA is an easy way to remember this.  

Knowing this, it’s a great idea to CPR: Choose - Prefer - Resonate with choosing an emotion that feels good. Makes sense, right? It also behooves you to choose to remain there - no matter what the circumstances.

Therein lies your power - the power of illusion (vs. the illusion of power).

The power of illusion:

Knowing that circumstances don’t matter. What matters is what we choose to believe, which will then, like a domino, create emotion, thought, and action. This is, in fact, how your reality is created moment to moment. Your state of being creates the circumstance, not the other way around. Most people have this backwards, believing that if the circumstance is “this way,” they will feel better.

Nope.

The illusion of power:

“I will manipulate 3D reality so I get what I want. When this happens, then I’ll be happy, so I will make it happen.”

This is a false belief and cannot work based upon how reality is created in 3D. You’re gonna live in a reality loop of suffering until you understand this Universal Law.

It’s not personal, it’s just physics. And simple physics at that.

Your “responsibility" - your ability to respond (“response-ability”) - is to consciously create utilizing the power of illusion. You’ll know you’re on track because it will feel like the path of least resistance. Ahhhhh.

You are not responsible for others. You are responsible to them - to be your authentic self.

Reality is an illusion, a projection of your beliefs. The experience of your reality is real, of course; however, your experience is based upon your beliefs. Your beliefs are the lens through which the projector of your free will projects onto the white canvas of now. And poof! That is what you live now, in this 3D space time reality.

See how powerful you are?

If you feel a bit lost, good. That means you are considering new perspectives - new beliefs. Reread the five paragraphs above and then let it simmer. I write holographically, so it’s like a time - release capsule, releasing at exactly the best time for you. Your higher mind is the conduit through which the information flows and it operates flawlessly.

So relax. You don’t need to understand anything intellectually now. Simply allow it to seep into your sparkling neurological net and in diving timing, you’ll have that “aha” moment.

And those feel so good, and why you chose to come to 3D Earth School.

 Now zooming out, I suggest you tend to your vibration by choosing to be aware of how you feel. If you feel flompily,* ask yourself, “What must I believe to be true to choose to create suffering in this moment?" 

The Law of Attraction is responding to your vibration - not your words. Words come later, remember?  (BETA)  This is why affirmations are great - provided you’re in the state to utilize that permission slip.

Check out the “Affirmation” link to learn more.

And great news!  Only those at your vibration can connect with you.

So your only job is to be authentically you and choose beliefs which align with that authentic you which, by default, creates emotions which feels good.

The multiverse will take care of the rest. It’s a perfectly aligned machine and works seemlessly.

No exceptions - not even you.

 Here’s a mantra I love:

"I choose to hold my vibration no matter what’s going on around me."

*”flompily” is a word I made up for anything that doesn’t feel good. Many words are laden with baggage. Flompaly is not.

As always take what you prefer and leave the rest.

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What My Dog Taught Me 💫

Our dog Aspen wasn’t eating. Wouldn’t touch her kibble.

Synchronistically, I saw an ad on youtube with Rob Lowe talking about the evils of kibble and was like, “That’s it! It’s the kibble!”

I started making her food from scratch - really good food. Food I would eat.

It worked. For a minute.

Then she started turning up her nose to even that - kept getting more and more finicky. Oy.

This went on for quite a while.

Then one Sunday in July I wasn’t feeling best ever after dinner. I had made a delicious meal we all love and eat often. I wondered if something had gone bad. But my Chickens and my HH felt fine.

Hmmmmm.

On Tuesday we grabbed some yummy Vietnamese food from a place in PVD after picking up our Chickens from an ICERM math camp at Brown. I was sooooo excited for this food, so hungry, and happily scarfed it down in the car en route home.

Again, I felt not best ever after the meal. Like ew in my stomach. I thought of the chicken in the salad I’d had - specifically of the chicken - and felt even more ew.

“Oh noooo,” I thought. “No, no, nooooo. Not again,” realling when I was in high school in Calabasas, California and ate an In-n-Out burger, felt this way, and didn’t eat meat again until I was pregnant with my first chicken at age 32. I knew I was pregnant when I found myself scarfing down sliced turkey in the kitchen.

Okay, back to present time (not Calabasas). The night after the Vietnamese food ew experience, after eating hamburgers at family dinner which I’d made - usually my fave, I felt ew, again.

I asked my higher mind to please give me a sign. Was this what I thought it was?

The next day my HH and I were on an early morning date walking around Federal Hill in Providence and I looked up and saw a huge sign (an actual 3D sign above a butcher) that read:

“Choose your chicken before we kill it.”

Yes, it really said this.

I started crying. My HH hugged me and lead me to our car.

The multiverse is never subtle.

After “the sign incident” I cried during my meditation for a few days, thinking about how animals are treated. While I was crying during the meditations, each of my three boy chickens came into the room in which I was meditating to “look for Frankie” (our rescue kitty). They came in one at a time and while doing so, snuck a glance at me, filled with concern.

When my third son came in to “look for kitty,” I knew I needed to address the tears. “I’m okay. I’m just sad about the animals,” I reassured.

“Are we gonna be raw vegan again?” he asked, clearly alarmed.

“No,” I replied immediately - firmly and honestly. Phoenix (age 19) was harkening back to the 7 years during which our family was raw vegan.

My response reflected that this had nothing to do with anyone except myself. I had received guidance on a few levels to shift my eating in a way that feels aligned - for me.

I love to cook and cook all foods for my five chickens and HH. I now choose to only buy meat and eggs raised on farms where the animals are treated ethically and kindly. I did the research and am a stickler.

As I cook I thank the beings who gave their lives in service so my family may be nourished. Sometimes I cry a little too. And that’s okay. “The circle of life,” I remind myself, as I honor them.

What does this have to do with our dog Aspen?
Well, I have been eating vegan now for 11 months and guess what - Aspen now eats her kibble - with joy.

Coincidence?

There are no coincidences. Everything is an orchestration.

Aspen was reflecting me back to me in her own way. Dogs are mirrors for us. 

I have had clients whose dogs got sick to show them something. I have had clients whose dogs got depressed to teach them something.  

Aspen stopped eating to show me something. To reflect me back to me.

Message received.

Important note: I am not proselytizing any type of eating regime. I celebrate and honor every being in the multiverse eating what aligns with them. This blog reflects a personal belief only. My intention with the blog is to elucidate how our dogs are magical spiritual partners, mirroring us back to ourselves. We were raw vegan for 7 years and stopped on a dime when our babies were one-year-old. My book covers this in a chapter called, “Why We Stopped Being a Label.” If you’re interested in learning more, click the “My Book: Chapter Summaries” link above where you’ll find a short audio summary.

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ACTION 💫 Bloom Where You Are Planted

Five affirmations about action:

• Procrastination is the wisdom to not force something you’re not ready for.  

• 99% is created in the calm, aligned, anticipatory state. 

• I don’t bang it out with action. I imagine the success and watch it happen.

• No action can make up for a lack of alignment.

• I don’t take action when I’m out of alignment.

I love action. Provided I am in alignment. If I am not, I do not act.  The end.

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That was a short blog, wasn’t it? 

Ok, maybe too short…here’s a bit more to lock it in.

Many people are acting, acting, acting all day long while they are out of alignment and then guess what? They are acting, acting, acting all day - and night - to “undo” the misaligned actions they took.

Oy.

Simple solution:

Choose to get into alignment first. 

The permission slip with which you get into alignment doesn’t have to be yoga, meditation, walking/hiking in nature, or cardio. These are my top five for alignment; however, that’s me - and what matters is you and what works for you. I only give these example as ideas.

Take the time, energy, and focus to discover what your alignment tools are; then do them daily.

No exceptions.

People tell me it is “discipline” that I do not act until I am in alignment, which means I don’t take action until I’ve practiced Prana Power Yoga and meditated.

It is not.

It is my highest excitement, not discipline.

Why would I choose to not feel good? I wouldn’t. It just doesn’t make sense.

Once you are in alignment, please act.

I do not CPR: Choose - Prefer - Resonate with reality looping about theory and doing…nothing. 

Hello? We live on 3D earth. Action is a must. It doesn’t have to be “perfect,” just start somewhere.  

Where you are now is a good place to start.

Bloom where you are planted.  

Resistance 💫

Understanding and defining your resistance is a sparkling opportunity

because resistance is what is keeping you from…everything you CPR manifesting.  

If this resonates*, to understand and define your resistance, follow these easy steps:

ask yourself: 

• "How does resistance feel to me - both physically and emotionally?”  

• "What thoughts arise from these emotions and physical sensations?”  

• “What are the false** beliefs which fuel the feelings?”

Next, when you begin to feel the physical manifestations of resistance - right when you start to feel that tension - ask yourself:

• “Am I resisting? What am I resisting?” 

• “What is keeping me from feeling good in this moment?”  

• “What belief am I choosing to cause suffering?”

If your answer is that the circumstance is keeping you from feeling good in the moment, you have given away your power. 

That circumstance is like gum you’ve chewed all the flavor out of. It’s a done deal.

You’ve already manifested it.

Your power lies in how good you choose to feel now, regardless of what is happening - regardless of whether you prefer it, or not.

It doesn’t matter what happens. What matters is what you do with what happens. 

When you need the circumstance to provide you with the good feeling, you put the cart before the horse.  

Finally, if you feel resistance to these concepts,

ask yourself:

• "How’s it going so far with the way I’ve been doing stuff?”

• “Am I open to trying something new - that works?”

*As always take what you prefer and leave the rest.

**A “false belief” is segregative. A “true belief” is integrative and needs no bells and whistles to convince you, because it feels good. It is in alignment with your higher mind who is on the mountain top.

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Just Make a Decision and Run With It 💫

17 years ago we moved from the pink house in Newton Massachusetts to the white castle. I was pregnant with Dakota and Montana (now 16) and had three other chickens running around (Madison who was 11, Sagey who was 5, and Phoenix who was 2 ). We had 4 Prana Power Yoga studios at the time and had just opened a raw vegan restaurant next to our Newton Prana Power Yoga studio. 

Lots going on, and all good!   

We moved in the day before Thanksgiving. We had not been looking for homes - or wanting to move.  We loved the pink house. I had driven by the white castle on my way to a playdate and just knew. Curly Bear (Phoenix) named it the “white cattel” at first glance. We bought it 12 days later.  

When we moved in I bought some cute white stools for the kitchen island. Loved them! I didn’t know the difference between the two different sizes (bar and kitchen), so I just guessed - didn’t have the desire to research or measure…just made a decision, and went with it.  

I bought the wrong size. Too tall.

My first thought was, “Better too tall than too short!” 

My next thought was, “I love them. They’re so pretty.”  

I have trained my brain over decades (been fascinated by and studying conscious creation since age 5) to default to the positive. 

A relentless focus on pure positive energy.  

What did I do? Surely not return them, ha ha ha.

That wasn’t my highest excitement with all I had going on. 

I cut a few inches off the legs. Done. Easy. And I did it myself.  

Gestalt of this story: 

Just make a decision and run with it. 

If need be, you can always cut a few inches off the legs, metaphorically. 

As you embark on this brand new sparkling moment, be gentle with yourself.  

See the blank white canvas in front of you as pure potential and possibility.

Know that you can’t get it wrong and you never get it done.  

You’re here to be authentically you. That’s it.  Everything else you do and “produce” in this lifetime is simply an expression of the impact you already have, just by being authentically you - from your first breath.

Get into alignment, then follow highest excitement moment to moment. Say to yourself,

“All I have to do is what feels good.”  

Soon that will be your reality. It is law. No exceptions.  

The currency with which you pay for this manifestation?  Belief.

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“Ok, I get it that it’s essential to be in alignment, but what about when I’m not?”

I got you.

If you are out of alignment, go general.

Say things to bring relief - not to “solve” anything.

Here are a few ideas: 

• - I am getting better and better at this. 

• - Things are taking care of themselves.

• - Law of attraction is managing my every intention. 

• - Everything important will take care of itself.

• - I know the path will light up for me.

• - I am learning to expect outside of what is happening.

• - It’s all right.

• - I'm all right.

• - It’s fine. I’m fine. Everything is fine.

• - Things are always working out for me.

• - The Multiverse supports me in all I do.

• - Everything is unfolding as it should. 

• - The Multiverse has already created it.

• - My Universal Team takes care of everything.

• - The Multiverse sends me what I want and what I’m ready for. 

• - I am ready for this or it would not be. 

That’s it. That’s all you need to do (and breathe).

Not joking about the breathing. When you breathe intentionally, fully, and deeply, it is not physiologically possible to experience anxiety.  Breath is essential and a wonderful tool.  

Inhale. Exhale. Inhale. Exhale. 

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Your Ultimate Power 💫

Remember...that person, place, or thing is neutral until you assign meaning to it/them. 

Reality is an illusion. 

A projection of what you believe.

This is very good news!  

This means you get to create your reality. 

Now. 

In this moment, which is all we have, you have a white canvas in front of you. 

What shall you paint on the moment of now?

Choose wisely. 💫

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“Taylor, I want to fall in love but…”

“Taylor, I want to fall in love but.…” 

If you CPR: Choose - Prefer - Resonate with falling in love and/but have some fear and (false) beliefs around it, try this, if it’s your highest excitement to do so.  

As always, take what you prefer and leave the rest.

First:

Identify the false beliefs on the other side of the “but….”

Examples of some false beliefs which may finish that sentence: 

“I’m not good enough.”

“I’m not worthy.”

“I’m not good at relationships.”

“It hasn’t happened yet, and I am ___ age, so it’s too late for me.”

“I’m doing something wrong.”

“All the good ones are taken.”

“I don’t know ‘how.’”

“No one in my family has a good relationship with their partner.”

“I don’t know any couples who have a relationship I would CPR: Choose - Prefer - Resonate with."

Next:

 Use the “belief tree” to root out what is fueling the false beliefs by asking yourself, "What must I believe to be true to feel (plug in a false belief)?” 

Or “I feel (plug in a false belief) because.…”

Next:

Dig into the answers your inner critic generates to make the false beliefs seem valid.
Your inner critic feeds on negativity and false beliefs.
Here are some examples which may surface:              

“I don’t have classes with him/her.”

“I don’t work with him/her.”

“I don’t run into him/her in town.” 

“I am really busy. I don’t have time to have a boyfriend/girlfriend.”

”It hasn’t happened yet so it isn’t going to happen.”

”I am unlucky in love.”

”I’m not pretty/handsome enough.”

”I’m not fit enough.”

”Something is wrong with me.”

Next:

Identify the feelings you CPR: Choose - Prefer - Resonate with feeling when you’re in love.
Make a list.

Some examples:

Love

Loved

Connected

Inspired

Seen

Heard

Understood

Supported

Confident

Respected

Appreciated

Ease

Relief

Satisfied

Exhilarated

Excited

Energized

Focused

Uplifted

The energy that creates worlds flowing through me in a grounded, sustainable way

The key to manifesting falling in love is to embody the feelings now. They already exist inside of you. Your job is to choose them, tune into their vibration, and embody them.

Then simply relax, and allow. 

He/she - or someone who’s an even better fit for you - must show up, in divine timing.  

It is law. No exceptions. 

General tips:

When you have a thought that feels “flompaly,*" you have disconnected from your higher mind who doesn’t feel the same way and won’t join you in your limiting false belief. Your higher mind will always stay in a vibration that feels good and gently beckon you there through beliefs that feel better. To have access to these better feeling beliefs which will provide relief, do the belief tree (explained above) to dismantle the false belief(s). 

When you choose a belief which feels bad, it generates feelings that feel bad, and they create thoughts that feel bad. This is being a “sloppy lazy thinker.” The easiest thought to think is the thought you’ve been thinking the most, even if it feels bad.

This is okay! Be gentle with yourself.

Once you are aware, you may choose differently.

You may choose a better feeling belief.

And the multiverse will immediately reflect evidence of that better feeling belief.

As a rebuttal to your inner critic who uttered the false beliefs, ask him/her, "Have you ever been in love?"  

When you are in love:  

Time increases.  

Productivity increases.  

Ease increases.  

Leverage increases.  

All these things also increase the probability that you will choose beliefs that feel good. 

The “love” you are looking for already exists inside of you.

You don’t have to create anything new, since everything already exists.

Your only job is to be your authentic self and choose how you prefer to feel.

*flompaly: I made this word up. It means anything that feels bad. Many words are laden with negative baggage so even saying the word can bring negative energy. So I made up a word that has no baggage.

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Every Choice You Make Creates a Timeline

Every belief, every vibration, every thought you hold projects into the multidimensional field and draws a path that matches it. These are timelines. They all exist as potential realities, because time is not linear the way humans perceive it. It’s more like a tapestry you can walk across in any direction.

When you shift your vibration to match a higher truth, the lower-vibration timelines that used to feel possible for you become impossible. They no longer resonate. You stop feeding energy into them.

For example, you once held a belief that you might not be enough, or that you might need to dim your light to fit in. That belief was feeding a timeline where you played small, denied your gifts, got sick, and/or fell into old patterns.

Then you remembered who you are — and chose differently.

That choice caused those old timelines to collapse.

They folded back into the field of infinite potential, no longer active for you.

Every choice you make creates a timeline.  Choose wisely.

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“Care about what other people think, and you will always be their prisoner.” – Lao Tzu

If you’re plagued by what negatively oriented people think, and believe that you become like them since “they’re everywhere,” may i ask you a question?

Thank you. I will.

You are surrounded by furniture, are you going to become a chair? 

I didn’t think so.

Now for some more context to this which may bring you relief and a feeling of ease and confidence. And if it doesn’t, that’s fine, too. As always take what you prefer and leave the rest.

Here’s what I often see happen when someone begins consciously choosing their beliefs.

"Taylor, I love my life and follow my highest excitement and attract all I CPR: Choose - Prefer- Resonate with, but…"

I hear this type of thing quite a bit after I have worked with a client and they understand the formula and begin implementing it. Their reality starts reflecting how well it works. BEST EVER!

And then comes the "but." It usually sounds something like this (I’m paraphrasing from conversations over the past 25 years):

“Taylor, I’m doing everything you’ve taught me as best as I can in every moment and it’s going so well! I love my life so much! I never imagined I could live a life like this — doing what I love, attracting all I CPR: Choose – Prefer – Resonate with!”

And then they say:

“But…”

Whenever someone says “but,” I know a (false) belief* is about to appear.

(A *false belief is defined as segregative - generates a feeling of “not good.” A belief that’s true for you is integrative - feels good)

Not a truth.

A (false) belief.

I inevitably laugh when they come to the “but,” because I wonder, “But? How can there be a but after all that?” 

I say so and we both laugh. Laughter is a very high vibration, right along with unconditional love. I highly recommend it.

Inevitably, the “but” translates into what “other people” think - aka the peanut gallery.  

Once the peanut gallery concern is introduced, the conversation continues with something like this:

“I'm so happy and getting all I CPR: Choose - Prefer - Resonate with with ease, but other people ask me where I am going, what I am doing - and what I have planned for "the future." Then I unsuccessfully attempt to explain how I follow the formula and everything comes to me exactly when I CPR: Choose - Prefer - Resonate with it, not before and not after, and I am continually attracting my dream life. I say that there is no future, only now.

But they can’t hear me. They always go back to my future and my “plans.” I explain that I’ll know when I know, and suggest that they look at how happy and abundant I am. But they just don’t get it.”

Every session, every client, and every situation is different. After all, change is the fifth universal law - everything changes, except the first four laws. However, zooming out to a generality of “my coaching clients;" when this comes up, I remind my client that yes, I teach them about the five steps of conscious creation. Yes, I remind them what they knew at birth and then forgot (as we all agreed to do to be here now in 3D Earth school). Yes, I coached them about how conscious creation is how all reality is created, and they have the power to choose and create consciously what they CPR: Choose - Prefer - Resonate with. And/but, they are the one doing it. They need to take the action to see their belief reflected in reality. 

After all, reality is just a mirror reflecting our beliefs back to us. I remind them that they changed their life. It is is they who are responsible for taking the action. And they do so with precision, grace, joy, love, light, laughter, ease, respect, appreciation and highest excitement.  

After my client absorbs that essential understanding of the power they have and are demonstrating by their action, they tell me that if feels great when I say that it’s none of their business what other people think and it’s not their job to change or convince them; nor could they anyhow. They say they feel immense relief hearing these words, which I explain means that it’s in alignment with their higher mind, who abides on the mountain and sees the broader view.

Soon after they say something like, “But Taylor, I’m surrounded by people who think this way. So I then begin to think - and be - like them!”

You know what I say about that? You do because you read it above.  

"So what!"  (Great 2 word mantra)  "You are surrounded by furniture, are you going to become a chair?” 

Next comes some form of “But it’s difficult to be yourself.”

“It’s difficult to be yourself” is just a belief. It’s not difficult to be yourself. That is not inherently true. You have simply bought into a belief system you’re not enjoying. It’s not a “fact.” There are only five “facts” (the 5 Universal Laws); everything else is an opinion, a belief, a perspective. There's no such thing as an inherently difficult circumstance. Nothing has built in meaning. You assign it meaning with the definition you have ascribed to it.

When people say, “Everyone knows that,” about something you do not personally “know” and/or CPR: Choose - Prefer - Resonate with, you may say (to yourself, or aloud), “I don’t know that. That's not my truth. Might be true for you and that’s valid, not true for me.”

You get to choose what is true for you. Choose wisely, since your beliefs create your reality.

So the next time you hear yourself say “but,” pause for a moment.

Ask yourself:

Is that actually true for me?

Or is it simply a belief I learned somewhere along the way?

Then CPR: Choose – Prefer – Resonate with what is true for you.

And to introduce lightness (enlightenment is simply lightening up), ask yourself if you have ever morphed into a chair because you're surrounded by furniture.

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Every Monday I will Post A Blog Here *

Every Monday I will post a blog here.*

Hi and welcome to my first (new) blog posted on my new website!

I’m so happy you’re here. 💕✨

This site is new - just like you are new in every moment.

You’re a brand new person in a brand new moment with a brand new vibration.

Congratulations! That’s something to celebrate.

Always look for reasons to celebrate. ✨🎉✨

I had so much fun (re)creating Taylorwells.me.

I curated and condensed 25 years of my fun (also referred to as work) and it’s all here for you. 💫

As always, take what you prefer and leave the rest. ❤️

I condensed and streamlined because

It’s all about the now. Everything is now. The past and the future are just ideas.

“I release the past and the future and abide in the ever-present now.”

So why look back, ever?

Sometimes, like now, in places on Taylorwells.me, it’s fun. Check out the fun media (some recent - some from years ago) on the shorts/podcasts/videos link.

If it feels fun, do it. If it doesn’t, don’t.

Every Monday I will post a blog here.*

*If it’s my ✨highest excitement.✨

If it’s not, I won’t.

Here are both sides of the coin:

Heads:

There’s a blog here on a Monday and you read it and take what you prefer and leave the rest. ❤️

Tails:

There’s no blog here on Monday which means it wasn’t my highest excitement, which reminds you to always follow your highest excitement.

As always I lead by example.

My life is my message.

Have the BEST DAY EVER! 💫

Lotsa love 💕and sparkles! ✨

Taylor

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